Dating Compendium

You're not crazy. There's a name for what's happening.

The Dating Compendium

48 named patterns to help you recognize what's happening, decide what to do, and stop second-guessing yourself.

48

Patterns

12

Yellow Flags

28

Red Flags

8

Walk Signals

Browse by Phase

Weeks 1-4: The Early Window

29 patterns

Months 1-2: The Merge Phase

17 patterns

Month 3 and Beyond: The Decision Point

2 patterns

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